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If I do everything she wants to please her and keep her happy, then I'll have the intimacy亲密 and sex that I want. I'll have a good marriage结婚 and a happy life. This is the refrain重复 that I hear over and over from the men who come to work with me in my practice. After all, happy wife, happy life, right? Wrong. Of course, the intention意图 behind this saying话 is good. Who doesn't want their partner to be happy? But we misunderstand误解 how to execute实行 it.
Because when you abandon放弃 yourself in order to get love, it's an unspoken transaction办理 that creates resentment怨恨, not attraction吸引. So what do you do instead?
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